I personally always ask. Just because other people are snapping doesn't always mean it's open slather; they could be friends. And I've never met anyone who was offended by being asked. It probably helped that the one time I was refused I said, "Okay, thanks anyway," and wandered off.
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Date: 2013-07-10 11:42 am (UTC)