It's really easy to either weight a published author's commentary/advice too high, or assume that they're weighting their own advice too highly for it to be reasonable. I'm way sorry that happened to you. :(
(So is Lilly, although she'd like me to stop being sorry and just go pet the cat already.)
no subject
Date: 2008-09-13 12:27 am (UTC)(So is Lilly, although she'd like me to stop being sorry and just go pet the cat already.)