I think what you're hearing when you hear people talking about this sort of stuff is a response to their experiences in the past, with context that is implied. So, yeah, sometimes you are hearing what you think you're hearing, but the intent is very different, they are not actually wanting to ban everyone who accidentally bumps into another person as they walk past.
(Real situation. I've had the "accidental" stranger boner bump happen SO MANY TIMES in crowded situations -- and it is perfectly obvious when it is accidental and when it's the "accidental" long slow slide across my hip and ass, bonus points for when they squeeze up behind me, grab my arm and throw in the accidental tit-grab as well.
Generally the actual accidental boner-bumps are brief and are followed by profuse embarrassed apologies. Those are readily forgiven and laughed off because dude it's crowded and boners happen. The other kind? Not so much.)
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(Real situation. I've had the "accidental" stranger boner bump happen SO MANY TIMES in crowded situations -- and it is perfectly obvious when it is accidental and when it's the "accidental" long slow slide across my hip and ass, bonus points for when they squeeze up behind me, grab my arm and throw in the accidental tit-grab as well.
Generally the actual accidental boner-bumps are brief and are followed by profuse embarrassed apologies. Those are readily forgiven and laughed off because dude it's crowded and boners happen. The other kind? Not so much.)